Threesomes, threesomes, threesomes. Hmm now, this is a very tricky sexual encounter. Studies have shown that majority of people (male and females) who have “threesomnia fever” as i call it, have yet to get the excruciating experience due to the serious complications concerned with it.

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A three-way sexual encounter has the power to drive a relationship to its downfall. A relationship has to be strongly built to be able to withstand the stress brought on by this intense fantasy. Before deciding to take the leap, allow me to give you the 411 of the possible complications that a relationship could run into.

  1. The possibility of one partner getting easily attached to the third-party and pursuing something more than just a hot one night stand.
  2. The resentful talks and the constant nagging about comparisons by a partner with the third-party.
  3. The increase in level of insecurity and jealousy

With all these complications, it does not imply the improbability of having a successful threesome, it only shows the possible outcome of a threesome. Now if you still want to take the dive then you should definitely read on to what is next.

What i will give you in the next few paragraphs would be guidelines to help you achieve something close to a perfect threesome, that is preventing damage to a high degree level. Now i must warn you that non of these guidelines are negotiable or avoidable, they MUST be followed. I call them the coollogo_com-207204047 LOL!

Before i go on, you will need to perform a relationship evaluation test. Every relationship has a growth stage which i have classified into two namely; the premature stage and the mature stage. A relationship still in its premature stage would be a relationship that is ranging from less than 3 months to 8 months, Yh that’s pretty long!. While a relationship in the mature stage would be ranging from 8 months and above. The reason why i have classified relationships into 2 is because a relationship within the premature stage will not be able to withstand the stress of a threesome, such relationships are still fresh and can easily be drowned so its best to stay clear. However, if you still want to go ahead fine! for the mature relationships you might want to manage the stress level you put on your relationship because you do not want to pass the elasticity limit.

With this done we can definitely begin stating the rules to follow!

  • UH UH…NO SECRETS secrets

Yes you heard me… no secrets! nonetheless the only way to eliminate this completely and i mean the issue of secrets, the both partners have to trust each other. The both partners would have to join heads together in picking the right person. Also any form of communication from the third-party to any of the partners in the relationship should always be made known to both partners not just one partner. The message from the third-party must have a mutual effect on both parties. I do hope you understand where am coming from.

  • ALL SET RULES MUST BE OBEYED

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People this an important law. This requires each partner to come up with sexual gestures they are comfortable and not comfortable allowing their partners do. When these rules are made, make effort to keep to them because any little violation can completely ruin the trust you have built-in the relationship. Please i beg you do not blame the issue of you slacking by not obeying the rules on the heat of the moment, it’s a really shitty excuse. Own up to the mistake if you make one, bear the consequences and make effort to fix things. Lastly, always put your partner on the priority list before anyone else. focus on the satisfaction of your partner both physically and emotionally. PS: do not engage in sneaky business that is definitely bad ending for you!

  • CHOOSE THE RIGHT PERSON

I chipped this in earlier on but i did not go into depth, now am about to so stress your eyes. This part is as important as every other rule i have mentioned. Do not be lazy in carrying out this part, i know it is stressful. The reason is because as much as we hate to admit it, we are not like the actors/ actresses on reality kings. It is very hard to have such a wonderful time with two other people and have to move on like it never happened, so it would be more advisable to indulge an escort or a friend(someone trust worthy) as the third-party and not just someone you found on the internet through social media, dating site or Craigslist. This still applies even though you claim you have performed screening tests. its better to be safe than sorry.

  • PROTECTION

Honestly, this is the most important rule because it is concerned with your health and can definitely cause harm so you better take this rule seriously. If your still clueless as to what am saying i mean Condoms! you can change condoms with every switch made and make sure to get yourselves tested before the Big day.

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That is the last of it ! I do hope i have been of great help to all of you and if you still need more help, counselling, questions do not hesitate to contact me through the social medias i have provided for you or you could personally email me at knowingrelationships@yahoo.com.

Also let me know what form of the threesome you prefer

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Leave your answers and comments below! thanks and see you next time.

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